Anne, you are so blessed to have the help of your dear mother during your time of recuperation after childhood. I was on my own after the birth of our children. Of course my husband was there in the evenings after work but I was on my own during the day however, that was kind of the norm at that time. And I am grateful that I didn't have social media then because I might have thought that I was a failure and should have been able to "do it all" like the influencers online. But actually it is normal to struggle in motherhood especially as a new mother. So try to relax and enjoy your babies while they are still with you, they really do grow up so fast!
Thank you so much, Laura ❤️ I do feel incredibly lucky to have so much help, I don’t know how I would have managed without it! Having help and support means I can relax and enjoy this time so much more, and for that I am truly grateful.
Oh Anne, this chapter is so special. This part really touches deep:
“Spring had come in the form of my own sweet mother. She was a warmth and a light, when we needed it the most.”
I agree, we should all be helping each other. By nature, we are not meant to raise families alone, especially when children are so small. As the saying goes, “it takes a village to raise a child”. This was literally so before.
Why don’t we all continue living closer geographically and in our hearts.
I look forward to the next chapter. Whenever you have time, energy and inspiration for it. I love that you are not rushing it all ❤️
Oh, I thought something was added! But I completely agree, having tried taking care of a baby alone and in community with others, it is really such a JOY to be more people. Everyone will have different roles, some might give her food, some will play with her, and when she is sad, she will come to me, and then she will go on, playing with somebody else. It feels honestly so natural when you are not the only one alone with a child or a baby. It makes me think that adults might also have great benefits in spending less time alone (and that’s coming from someone who is truly an introvert). Having people around you, to hold you, to care for you or just to witness you - it is magical ✨
Oh Anne, I am late reading this but it brought tears to my eyes. I understand your pain and struggle so much. I am right there with you..
I pray that I can be like your mother, arriving on the doorstep of my child’s home with tulips in hand ready to help where I can. I pray I can be warmth and light like her 💗
And did you know, the meaning of Tulips is ‘Perfect and deep love’ how beautiful that your mother would bring these 🥹💕
Hold tight my friend, all your struggles will pay off I just know it 🥰
Thank you so so much, Melissa ❤️ I did not know the symbolic meaning of the tulips, that is beautiful. My mother is a great rolemodel for me as well, I would love to do the same for my children - and for her as well ❤️ So glad to know that my piece moved yoi, it really means a lot to me
This brought tears to my eyes. Well done for accepting the help that was offered, it is so hard to let go of trying to look like we have it all together. Now that I am a mother and my own offers help I always think, when my children are grown of course Inak going to want to hold their babies and fold their laundry and do what I can for them, my own mother is no different! I hope the spring brings with it warmth and more joy x
Your writing is beautiful and the part about your mom made me tear up remembering how my mom showed up for us in the first months I was postpartum. Better yet, she’s continued to and now my daughter is almost three and they have the most special connection. Moms are incredible.
Indeed, you ARE blessed. An honest and genuine extension of care from family and friends is one of the absolute Gifts of this tricky experience we call Life. Your reflection here is a tender reminder Self Care is a prerequisite to being available for others. You’ve “got this”, Anne - as they say in the States. And you’ve got a support system that Cares. Lovely post. 🥰 -V
Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Virginia ❤️ This was just what I needed to hear today. I truly am so lucky, and in this season of life I appreciate our decision to move away from the city and back closento our families so much more! Hope you are well, much love from me ❤️
What a blessing your mother is, Anne. I'm so glad she brought the cheerfulness and renewal of spring to you when you needed it. I wish this for all families and mothers. When I finished reading, I turned to my husband and let him know that when our children are grown and on their own, I'm going to show up to either deep clean or take care of the grandkids, flowers in hand, because after all, flowers are a love language.
Aw, that is so sweet! I remember coming home after school to find my own grandmother in the midst of cleaning our floors or during our laundry many times. It really is such a nice way to be held in hard times, and I really want to continue this tradition when my own kids grow up as well ❤️
Anne, you are so blessed to have the help of your dear mother during your time of recuperation after childhood. I was on my own after the birth of our children. Of course my husband was there in the evenings after work but I was on my own during the day however, that was kind of the norm at that time. And I am grateful that I didn't have social media then because I might have thought that I was a failure and should have been able to "do it all" like the influencers online. But actually it is normal to struggle in motherhood especially as a new mother. So try to relax and enjoy your babies while they are still with you, they really do grow up so fast!
Thank you so much, Laura ❤️ I do feel incredibly lucky to have so much help, I don’t know how I would have managed without it! Having help and support means I can relax and enjoy this time so much more, and for that I am truly grateful.
Oh Anne, this chapter is so special. This part really touches deep:
“Spring had come in the form of my own sweet mother. She was a warmth and a light, when we needed it the most.”
I agree, we should all be helping each other. By nature, we are not meant to raise families alone, especially when children are so small. As the saying goes, “it takes a village to raise a child”. This was literally so before.
Why don’t we all continue living closer geographically and in our hearts.
I look forward to the next chapter. Whenever you have time, energy and inspiration for it. I love that you are not rushing it all ❤️
Thank you, Elena, so glad you liked it ❤️ It feels special to me too
So true! This is exactly how I feel, too.
I didn’t manage to finish my previous comment before accidentally hitting “post” ☺️
Oh, I thought something was added! But I completely agree, having tried taking care of a baby alone and in community with others, it is really such a JOY to be more people. Everyone will have different roles, some might give her food, some will play with her, and when she is sad, she will come to me, and then she will go on, playing with somebody else. It feels honestly so natural when you are not the only one alone with a child or a baby. It makes me think that adults might also have great benefits in spending less time alone (and that’s coming from someone who is truly an introvert). Having people around you, to hold you, to care for you or just to witness you - it is magical ✨
Oh Anne, I am late reading this but it brought tears to my eyes. I understand your pain and struggle so much. I am right there with you..
I pray that I can be like your mother, arriving on the doorstep of my child’s home with tulips in hand ready to help where I can. I pray I can be warmth and light like her 💗
And did you know, the meaning of Tulips is ‘Perfect and deep love’ how beautiful that your mother would bring these 🥹💕
Hold tight my friend, all your struggles will pay off I just know it 🥰
Thank you so so much, Melissa ❤️ I did not know the symbolic meaning of the tulips, that is beautiful. My mother is a great rolemodel for me as well, I would love to do the same for my children - and for her as well ❤️ So glad to know that my piece moved yoi, it really means a lot to me
This brought tears to my eyes. Well done for accepting the help that was offered, it is so hard to let go of trying to look like we have it all together. Now that I am a mother and my own offers help I always think, when my children are grown of course Inak going to want to hold their babies and fold their laundry and do what I can for them, my own mother is no different! I hope the spring brings with it warmth and more joy x
Thank you so much ❤️ I am thinking the exact self, grandmothers really are so special!
This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing. 🩷
Thank you for reading, Josie ❤️
Your writing is beautiful and the part about your mom made me tear up remembering how my mom showed up for us in the first months I was postpartum. Better yet, she’s continued to and now my daughter is almost three and they have the most special connection. Moms are incredible.
Thank you so much, Mackenzie ❤️ Mothers are truly wonderful! Can’t wait to show up at my own daughters doorstep when she gets older.
Beautiful …… an Angel appearing at your door when desperately needed!
Indeed, you ARE blessed. An honest and genuine extension of care from family and friends is one of the absolute Gifts of this tricky experience we call Life. Your reflection here is a tender reminder Self Care is a prerequisite to being available for others. You’ve “got this”, Anne - as they say in the States. And you’ve got a support system that Cares. Lovely post. 🥰 -V
Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Virginia ❤️ This was just what I needed to hear today. I truly am so lucky, and in this season of life I appreciate our decision to move away from the city and back closento our families so much more! Hope you are well, much love from me ❤️
I feel this. 💫
❤️❤️
Holding you tight. You are such a light ❤️❤️❤️
Much love ❤️
What a blessing your mother is, Anne. I'm so glad she brought the cheerfulness and renewal of spring to you when you needed it. I wish this for all families and mothers. When I finished reading, I turned to my husband and let him know that when our children are grown and on their own, I'm going to show up to either deep clean or take care of the grandkids, flowers in hand, because after all, flowers are a love language.
Aw, that is so sweet! I remember coming home after school to find my own grandmother in the midst of cleaning our floors or during our laundry many times. It really is such a nice way to be held in hard times, and I really want to continue this tradition when my own kids grow up as well ❤️